Friday, January 11, 2013

Texas again.....soon

It is all settled.

I will be returning to Texas, the end of February. Mr. Awesome and I have discussed this backwards and forwards. He has a wonderful job here....and a commitment to it till at least December of this year. He loves it, and I am so proud of the work he is doing.

There is nothing for me here tho. Well, that sounds kind of cold....Mitchell is here! I love him. Yet, he is gone all day, and there is nothing for someone, like me, who is an outgoing people person.

So, more discussion with my kids.....it is settled. I will be going to Stafford (Houston area) where Robbie Lynn is. I can help with the g=kids, get some college courses started, and maybe a part time job.

Mitchell will stay here. I can get airfare from Houston to Vegas cheaper than from Vegas to Houston....so I can come here all the time.....he has to go to Vegas or Reno for real shopping at least once a month......

It is not the perfect answer, but it will work for awhile.
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Just emailed my parents that I will be moving back to Texas....without Mitchell. Depending on my mom's mood when she reads it....she will either think it is a fantastic idea....or yell at me for being a horrible wife and leaving my husband all alone.

My mom is 77 and very old fashion thinking. Well, I sort of think like she does....we stay with our man no matter what. yet, in this case, I think God will be okay with me going. It is only a temporary amount of time.
 
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(fb friends messages to the above about mom)
 
  • Turtle Chernish You're doing it for you and Mitchell, not your Mum. Her choice is to accept it or not, but should have no consequence in your decision. No guilt!
  • Dianna Gellermann Wait what? Are u joking !
  • Bob Shelp Why are you moving back?
  • Terrie Lynn Gelman @Bob.....Nevada....at least here where we are staying is dead.....and not going to ever get any better. So I am going back to be with family and friends while he finishes his time here.....they have talked about sending him to other mines to do this job, cause he is good....which would leave me alone here for months. He would rather me be back home in Texas....and I agree.
  • Terrie Lynn Gelman @ Turtle, easier said than done....mom is the master of guilt trips and I am the champion at accepting them. bwahahahaha
  • Terrie Lynn Gelman So far all she said was "a person has to do what a person has to do". She is not happy. I know my mom.
  • Turtle Chernish Oh - OK then. We'll walk you through the guilt trips then!
  • Carol Naegele YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Cynthia Siqueiros TL...no worries, my Michael left last week for Austin, TX to take a transfer from his security job. I knew it was best for his health and psyche so I support him going. So don't feel bad, Mitchell loves you and I love my husband and we understand that when a move doesn't work it doesn't work, it's ok, you gave it a try and it just wasn't for you. You don't let anyone make you feel guilty, you are a wonderful caring wife, mother and grandmother and would only do this if truly needed. Hang in there friend and know we all love you! Tons of hugs for my Texas Rose!

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